Women need a skilled partner

Many men pride themselves on their ability to make a woman o r g as m (and your skills are definitely appreciated), but the ultimate responsibility for a woman’s o rgas m belongs to her. It’s perfectly normal for a woman to have difficulty achieving a vaginal or ga sm -- that’s why God invented the clitoris. Meaning: She can still achieve a fabulous orgasm even if her lover is a vir gin with limited experience and know-how. A man’s efforts are certainly helpful, but if she’s not achieving o rga sm she has no one to blame but herself. Additionally, many women suffer from performance anxiety just as men do. If a woman falls into this category, even the most skillful of men wouldn’t be able to make her orgasm, regardless of his efforts.

Find your dirty talk voice

You need to find your own way of talking dirty. Your dirty talk might be low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals, or precise whispers. It might reflect the way you talk in your daily life, or it might express a different aspect of your personality. You don’t need to pick only one voice, the element of surprise can add an extra sense of anticipation, when your partner doesn’t know what they’re going to get an earful of next!